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The parents now a days are quite worred about the behavioral changes in thier childern due to several socio-economical reasons. The gap between parents and�us, the youth,�is increasing day by day due to which the family bonding is getting weaker and weaker.�We, the youth, want liberty in every deed we do. We want our parents�not to be disturb�us in what-ever�we do�in what-so-ever manner.�We have�forgotten the amount of time�our parnets have invested in for�our brought up.�We have forgotten the countless efforts and sacrifices by�our parents throughtout our lives.�

Starting from our birth they have taken care of our food (22years * 365 days * 3 times = 24000 times!), our clothes (daily washing, ironing, new purchasing), our education (daily home works, uniform, school/tution fee), religious moral teaching every day (THE REAL GREAT JOB), computer toys purchasing and God knows how many other countless efforts they have put in to make us a complete human being�to survive in this world. Indeed, all those efforts�cannot be covered in this article but the overall emphesis is that its our moral and�religious�mandatory responsibility�to take care of them now.

Below are some small�acts of kindness which I request you to consider to show your affection with them and to take care of them:

Give them enough money so that they don’t have to ask you.
Share funny and entertaining things with them to make them laugh or smile.
Don’t speak loudly. Speak slowly, nicely�and softly.
Do not walk in front of them in market or anywhere. They might walk slow being old; stay behind them. Give them respect.
Ask for small tasks again and again. For example, “Abou Jee, do you need water? Should i bring tea for you? Are you hungry, baba” etc�
Closely monitor thier health. visit doctor if required. Have them thorougly checked time to time.
Take care of their medicines. Set reminders on your phone for their medicines and�serve them on time.
Take them to the mosque. Walk slowly. Follow their pace.
Take them to the park�for walk. If not possible daily, then take them on weekend.
Do not call them by their name. Call them with respect.
Open the door for them with respect
Adapt yourself according to�their�schedule not vise versa.
Do shopping for them (buy their clothes, shoes, small items like tooth paste).� Buy your mother a nice coffee cup. Take them to market and buy them according to their likings. Buy your parents some nice books; usually people love to read books in old age.
When you come back to home, visit them first in their room.
Respect thier social circle and let them enjoy with their friends.� Article written by Junaid.Tahir
In case of conflict on any issue, try to follow them as much as possible. Remember, they have been sacrificing their money and time in raising you for years and years. Its time to pay back. They have been showing all the patience during your childhood. Its time for you to be patient.
Keep them with you instead of sending them�to old houses etc. This will be a big act of ignorance if you do.
When starting the food, serve them first.

In the end, I would recommend�making a check list of this and and paste it on any wall in your room or kitchen and read it often to remember

Please do share if you are doing any other good thing in making your parents feel great 🙂

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“beeeeeppp ….”
If you are one of our children,
dial 1 and then select the option from 1 to 5
in order of “birth arrival” so we know who it is.

If you need us to stay with the children, press 2
If you want to borrow the car, press 3
If you want us to wash your clothes and do the ironing, press 4
If you want the grandchildren to sleep here tonight, press 5
If you want us to pick up the kids at school, press 6
If you want us to prepare a meal for Sunday or to have it delivered to

your home,press 7
If you want to come to eat here, press 8
If you need money, press 9
If you are going to invite us to dinner, or, taking us to the theatre, start

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WHAT IS A GRANDPARENT?
(Taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds)

Grandparents are a lady and a man who have no little children of their own.

They like other people’s.

A grandfather is a man and a grandmother is a lady!

Grandparents don’t have to do anything except be there when we come

to see them…They are so old they shouldn’t play hard or run. It is good

if they drive us to the shops and give us money.

When they take us for walks, they slow down past things like pretty leaves

and caterpillars.

They show us and talk to us about the colours of the flowers and also why

we shouldn’t step on ‘cracks.’

They don’t say, ‘Hurry up.’

Usually grandmothers are fat but not too fat to tie your shoes.
They wear glasses and funny underwear.

They can take their teeth and gums out.

Grandparents don’t have to be smart.

They have to answer questions like ‘Why isn’t God married?’ and

‘How come dogs chase cats?’

When they read to us, they don’t skip. They don’t mind if we ask for

the same story over again.

Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don’t have

television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with us.

They know we should have a snack time before bed time, and they say

prayers with us and kiss us even when we’ve acted bad.

GRANDPA IS THE SMARTEST MAN ON EARTH! HE TEACHES ME

GOOD THINGS, BUT I DON’T GET TO SEE HIM ENOUGH TO GET AS

SMART AS HIM!

It’s funny when they bend over; you hear gas leaks, and they blame their dog.

Send this to other grandparents, almost grandparents, or heck, send it to

everyone. It will make their day.

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तुसी बड़े मजाकिया हो…

4 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा महान है.!
6 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा सबकुछ जानते है.!
10 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा बहुत अच्छे है,लेकिन गुस्सा जल्दी हो जाते है.!
13 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा बहुत अच्छे थे जब मैँ छोटा था.!
14 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा बहुत तुनक मिजाज के होते जा रहे है.!
16 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : पापा जमाने के साथ नही चल पाते, बहुत पुराने ख्यालो के है.!
19 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : पापा लगभग सनकी होते जा रहे है.!
20 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : हे भगवान अब तो पापा को झेलना मुश्किल है, पता नही
मम्मी कैसे सहन कर लेती है.!
25 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : पापा तो मेरी हर बात का विरोध करते है.!
30 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे बच्चो को समझाना बहुत मुश्किल है, मैँ तो पापा से बहुत डरता था.!
40 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा ने मुझे बडे अनुशाशनिक तरीके से पाला, मुझे
भी पालना पडेगा अब.!
45 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मैँ आश्चर्य चकित हु कि कैसे मेरे पापा ने मुझे बडा किया होगा.?
50 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : जबकि मै अपनी इकलोती औलाद की देखभाल भी ठीक
तरीके से नही कर पाता.!
55 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा बहुत दुरदर्शी थे, वो हमारे भविष्य के बारे मेँ
काफी सोचते थे.!
60 वर्ष की आयु मेँ : मेरे पापा उच्च कोटि के इन्सान है,जबकि मेरा बेटा मुझे
सनकी समझता है.!

वाकई मेँ मेरे पापा बहुत महान थे.!
पापा महान है इस बात को पुरी तरह समझने के
लिए मुझको पुरे 56 साल लग गये.!

आशा है की आपको 56 साल नहीं लगेंगे |
.love your papa. and Happy fathers Day ..

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THE VALUE OF THE PARENTS!
A couple of excellent academic, applied for the positionmanager of a large company.
He spent the first interview and the director made the last, taking the decision.
The director has found, through the curriculum, that their achievements academic were excellent all the way from the secondary to the research of graduate and there was a year that had not scored with a perfect score.
The director asked, “Did you have a purse in school?”
The young man replied, “no.”
The director said, “It was his father who paid their dues?”the young man replied, “My father died when I was only a year, was my mother who paid my dues. “
The director asked, “Where do you work your mother?” – And the young Replied, “My mother washes clothes.”
The Director asked the young man to show him their hands.The young Showed a pair of soft hands and perfect.
The director asked, “Have you ever helped her mother wash clothes?” – The Young replied: “Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. In addition, the laundry mother faster than me. “
The director said, “I have a request. Today, when I get back, check and clean hands of his mother and then come see me tomorrow morning. “
The young man felt that the chance of obtaining employment was high. When came home, he asked, happy, the mother to let him clean their hands. The mother thought it strange, I was happy, but with a mixture of feelings and showed his hands to his son.
The young man wiped his hands slowly from his mother. A tear ran down his as he did. It was the first time I noticed that the mother’s hands were very wrinkled and had too many bruises on his hands. Some were tãodolorosas the mother complained when cleaned with water.
This was the first time that the young man realized that this pair of hands washed clothes all day you had paid the fees.Bruises mother’s hands were the price to pay for your undergraduate, excellence Academic and your future.
After you finish cleaning the hands of the mother, the young man silently washed other clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a long time.
The next morning the young man went to the principal’s office.
The director saw the tears in the eyes of the young man and asked, “Tell me, what he did and learned yesterday that in your house?”
The young man replied, “I wiped my hands of my mother and even just wash clothes left over. “
The director asked, “Please tell me what you felt.”
The young man said “First, I now know what to value. Without my mother, I would not be a successful day.Second, the work and help my mother, only now realized how difficult and hard it is to have something ready. Thirdly, now appreciate the importance and value of a family relationship. “
The director said, “This is what I’m looking for a manager. I want recruit someone who can appreciate the assistance of others, a person who know the suffering of others to have things done and a person who does not put the money as his sole purpose in life. You’re hired. “
Later, this young man worked hard and received the respect of their subordinates. All employees worked diligently and as a team. The company’s performance has improved tremendously.
A child who had been protected and usually all that is wanted develop mentally and always put first. Ignore theefforts of their parents and when you start work, assume that all people should hear and when they become managers, not know the suffering of their employees and always blame others.For this type of people, who may be good academically may be successful for a while, but eventually will not feel the sense target attained. Moan, be full of hatred andfight for more.
If you’re that kind of parents we are really showing love orwe are destroying our son?
You can let your child live in a big house, eat good meals,learn piano and watch TV on a large plasma TV. But whenmowing the lawn, please let him try it. Aftermeal, let him wash his plate with his brothers and sisters.Let him keep his toys and get your own bed.This is not because he has no money to hire a maid, butbecause he wants is to love and teach how to be. Whether he understands that no matter how rich their parents are, because one day it will aging, such as the mother of that young. The most important thing their children should understand is to appreciate the effort and experience oflearning difficulty and ability to work with others to do things.
What are the people who stayed with wrinkled hands for me?
The value of our fathers …
One of the most beautiful texts on parenting I have ever read. Reading mandatory for us parents, and especially for children.

That last bit of the day is filled with peace,light, and that love may dwell in your heart forever.
A thousand kisses to your cute sweet heart.Always a friend …

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