tricks for your success


 

Want to reach your goals more quickly? Set your mindset for success with these tricks.

We all want a successful happy life. You are probably like me and have many goals you want to achieve. Whether these goals are for business, home, family, or self-improvement, setting your mindset for success is key.

Without a proper mindset you may find yourself distracted by daily life or experiencing shiny object syndrome. Shiny object syndrome is when you are always distracted by the latest and greatest idea, so you rarely follow one path through to the end.

You may have decided you have all the time in the world to reach these goals. Will you feel the same way in 5 years if you havent reached them yet? If you look back 5 years, what did you plan to achieve at that time? Have you achieved those goals? Why or why not?

If you set your mindset for success, you will reach your goals more quickly and will then find yourself with the opportunity to create new, and possibly even bigger, goals.

Develop Success Habits

  1. Create systems to keep yourself on track.
  2. Make a small step toward each of your goals each day.
  3. Capture all of the information that could help you.
  4. Take a quick note on your phone while you are out for a walk so you dont forget.
  5. Clip all articles and inspiring ideas for later reference.
  6. Create the to-do list for the next day the night before.
  7. Prioritize your to do list.
  8. Tackle the most dreaded task first, as everything else will feel like a piece of cake after.

Once youve implemented one or more of the above success habits for over 21 days, it will become much easier and a part of your routine. At that time, you can add in another mindset for success. Feel free to try implementing them all at once, but for most people, that much change to their routine is overwhelming and they are dooming themselves to failure.

Make Better Decisions

  1. Start making executive decisions you are the CEO of your own life, so begin taking charge and making decisions as if you were being paid for those decisions.
  2. Apply mental filters.
  3. Run decisions through an if this, then that scenario in your mind.
  4. Consider the worst case scenario.
  5. Keep your end goal in mind. Does the choice fit with your goal or take you in a different direction?
  6. Distance your emotions if they are really strong. A gut reaction is great, but take a step back if one of the choices really engages an emotional response in you. Come back to make the decision when you can be a bit more objective.
  7. Learn from your failures by asking yourself what you learned from the experience.
  8. Stop the negative talk in your mind.
  9. Know your strengths and weaknesses.
  10. Ask for feedback from colleagues.
  11. Be able to process both positive and negative feedback in a constructive manner.
  12. Learn how to correct yourself when you find yourself going too far or not keeping in line with your goal.
  13. Develop core competencies that will help you reach your goal.
  14. Be results-focused.
  15. When you experience a setback, dont dwell on it. After doing an assessment, move on to the next thing.
  16. Dont be afraid to make a course correction when necessary
  17. Stick with your decisions in most cases; constant course correction makes the road 10 times as long.

Decision-making is a huge key to success. We make many decisions each day, and they either take us closer or farther away from our goals. Do you know what effects your decisions are having on your goals? Spend a few minutes thinking about the last few decisions youve made and decide whether they are in line with your goals or taking you farther away from them.

Which mindset for success tricks can you put in practice today? Share your best success habits with us in the comments below.source; LifeHack

 

to reach your goals more quickly? Set your mindset for success with these tricks.

We all want a successful happy life. You are probably like me and have many goals you want to achieve. Whether these goals are for business, home, family, or self-improvement, setting your mindset for success is key.

Without a proper mindset you may find yourself distracted by daily life or experiencing shiny object syndrome. Shiny object syndrome is when you are always distracted by the latest and greatest idea, so you rarely follow one path through to the end.

You may have decided you have all the time in the world to reach these goals. Will you feel the same way in 5 years if you havent reached them yet? If you look back 5 years, what did you plan to achieve at that time? Have you achieved those goals? Why or why not?

If you set your mindset for success, you will reach your goals more quickly and will then find yourself with the opportunity to create new, and possibly even bigger, goals.

Develop Success Habits

  1. Create systems to keep yourself on track.
  2. Make a small step toward each of your goals each day.
  3. Capture all of the information that could help you.
  4. Take a quick note on your phone while you are out for a walk so you dont forget.
  5. Clip all articles and inspiring ideas for later reference.
  6. Create the to-do list for the next day the night before.
  7. Prioritize your to do list.
  8. Tackle the most dreaded task first, as everything else will feel like a piece of cake after.

Once youve implemented one or more of the above success habits for over 21 days, it will become much easier and a part of your routine. At that time, you can add in another mindset for success. Feel free to try implementing them all at once, but for most people, that much change to their routine is overwhelming and they are dooming themselves to failure.

Make Better Decisions

  1. Start making executive decisions you are the CEO of your own life, so begin taking charge and making decisions as if you were being paid for those decisions.
  2. Apply mental filters.
  3. Run decisions through an if this, then that scenario in your mind.
  4. Consider the worst case scenario.
  5. Keep your end goal in mind. Does the choice fit with your goal or take you in a different direction?
  6. Distance your emotions if they are really strong. A gut reaction is great, but take a step back if one of the choices really engages an emotional response in you. Come back to make the decision when you can be a bit more objective.
  7. Learn from your failures by asking yourself what you learned from the experience.
  8. Stop the negative talk in your mind.
  9. Know your strengths and weaknesses.
  10. Ask for feedback from colleagues.
  11. Be able to process both positive and negative feedback in a constructive manner.
  12. Learn how to correct yourself when you find yourself going too far or not keeping in line with your goal.
  13. Develop core competencies that will help you reach your goal.
  14. Be results-focused.
  15. When you experience a setback, dont dwell on it. After doing an assessment, move on to the next thing.
  16. Dont be afraid to make a course correction when necessary
  17. Stick with your decisions in most cases; constant course correction makes the road 10 times as long.

Decision-making is a huge key to success. We make many decisions each day, and they either take us closer or farther away from our goals. Do you know what effects your decisions are having on your goals? Spend a few minutes thinking about the last few decisions youve made and decide whether they are in line with your goals or taking you farther away from them.

Which mindset for success tricks can you put in practice today? Share your best success habits with us in the comments below.source; LifeHack

 

ways to make your Parents Happy


The parents now a days are quite worried about the behavioral changes in their children due to several socio-economical reasons. The gap between parents and�us, the youth,�is increasing day by day due to which the family bonding is getting weaker and weaker.�We, the youth, want liberty in every deed we do. We want our parents�not to be disturb�us in what-ever�we do�in what-so-ever manner.�We have�forgotten the amount of time�our parents have invested in for�our brought up.�We have forgotten the countless efforts and sacrifices by�our parents throughout our lives.�
Starting from our birth they have taken care of our food (  years * 365 days * 3 times = 24000 times!), our clothes (daily washing, ironing, new purchasing), our education (daily home works, uniform, school/tuition fee), religious moral teaching every day (THE REAL GREAT JOB), computer toys purchasing and God knows how many other countless efforts they have put in to make us a complete human being�to survive in this world. Indeed, all those efforts�cannot be covered in this article but the overall emphasis is that its our moral and�religious�mandatory responsibility�to take care of them now.
Below are some small�acts of kindness which I request you to consider to show your affection with them and to take care of them:


  1. Give them enough money so that they don’t have to ask you.
  2. Share funny and entertaining things with them to make them laugh or smile.
  3. Don’t speak loudly. Speak slowly, nicely�and softly.
  4. Do not walk in front of them in market or anywhere. They might walk slow being old; stay behind them. Give them respect.
  5. Ask for small tasks again and again. For example, “Abou Jee, do you need water? Should i bring tea for you? Are you hungry, baba” etc�
  6. Closely monitor thier health. visit doctor if required. Have them thorougly checked time to time.
  7. Take care of their medicines. Set reminders on your phone for their medicines and�serve them on time.
  8. Take them to the mosque. Walk slowly. Follow their pace.
  9. Take them to the park�for walk. If not possible daily, then take them on weekend.
  10. Do not call them by their name. Call them with respect.
  11. Open the door for them with respect
  12. Adapt yourself according to�their�schedule not vise versa.
  13. Do shopping for them (buy their clothes, shoes, small items like tooth paste).� Buy your mother a nice coffee cup. Take them to market and buy them according to their likings. Buy your parents some nice books; usually people love to read books in old age.
  14. When you come back to home, visit them first in their room.
  15. Respect thier social circle and let them enjoy with their friends.� Article written by Junaid.Tahir
  16. In case of conflict on any issue, try to follow them as much as possible. Remember, they have been sacrificing their money and time in raising you for years and years. Its time to pay back. They have been showing all the patience during your childhood. Its time for you to be patient.
  17. Keep them with you instead of sending them�to old houses etc. This will be a big act of ignorance if you do.
  18. When starting the food, serve them first.
In the end, I would recommend�making a check list of this email and and paste it on any wall in your room or kitchen and read it often to remember
Please do share if you are doing any other good thing in making your parents feel great 🙂